Archive for May, 2003


31 May

Sucky Week…. Sort Of. Thank God for Dawson’s Creek!

I have a confession to make. For the last month or so I have lapsed back into an unexplainable fascination with Dawson’s Creek. Yep Dawson’s Creek. I can’t really explain why. A couple of years ago, back when I had my dingy but all-mine one bedroom apartment in the hood, I didn’t have cable. Gasp! No cable. I know, I know. That’s almost like having no Internet. Not quite as bad but almost. That sad but true fact forced me to buy an antenna for my brand new TV (my first major purchase as an “adult” in the “real world”). That antenna allowed me to receive a grand total of 5 real channels. I don’t count the public access and home shopping channels. I’ve always been a night owl. Not a night owl that goes out on the town and parties. I’m just a night owl that stays up and reads or watches TV or plays video games or listens to music until all hours of the night. Well it turns out that back then 11 o’clock was THE time for me. I was fully awake (I’m a night owl so that makes me a non-morning person. Which means that any time before 3pm I’m not conscious and I’m not fully awake until around 6 or 7pm) and ready to go at 11. That just happened to coincide with the time that our local ABC/WB affiliate switched over to their nightly WB coverage each night. Prime time in the late night. So naturally I got hooked on all the WB shows that were all the rage back then. Buffy, Angel, Roswell, Felicity, and yes Dawson’s Creek.

The fact that I started watching all of those shows is kind of ironic actually. All through college my friends and I constantly bagged on the WB and shows like Buffy and Dawson’s Creek. We had never actually watched them but we were always quick with a joke or one liner putting the shows or the network down. Dawson’s Creek was part of our running joke. Anyway for that year and a half or so, excluding the last decent season of The X-Files, Making The Band, and the Saturday night British Comedy block on PBS, I watched nothing but WB shows, at least Monday through Wednesday. Thursday and Friday were Blockbuster nights. So that’s how I first caught the Dawson’ Creek bug. After moving out of the hood and in with a roommate that actually had cable, my WB interests waned. I did an okay job of sticking with Buffy and Roswell and Angel and Felicity and Dawson for about half a season or so but then I kind of fell off the band wagon. Shortly before moving out of the hood I got a regular 8 to 5 job (as opposed to the odd hours I had been working previously) which made staying up until 1 am or 2am watching my favorite shows less practical. And even though I had a fancy, high tech, top of the line VCR I didn’t have much luck recording the shows for later viewing. I’d either forget to record the shows all together or I’d set the VCR but forget to put the tape in or I’d set the VCR to record the wrong channel or I’d set the VCR but forget to leave the cable box on or I’d set the VCR leave the cable box on but forget to turn the sound up on the cable box or my roommates would forget that I had the VCR set and just turn on the VCR and TV and watch something else. When Buffy and Roswell made the move over to UPN I thought that would be the solution to my need for a WB fix (even though they made the switch they will always be known as WB shows). Unlike the WB, UPN actually has a full time affiliate in Memphis which means that Buffy and Roswell would come at more reasonable prime time viewing slots. Alas it wasn’t to be. I was on my 4 day a week work out kick and usually went to the gym while the shows were on. Setting the VCR was out because my roommates wanted to watch TV and they didn’t have TVs their rooms. That meant watching on the big TV in the living room or in my room. Neither were brave enough venture into the chaos that was my room so that left the big TV. I consoled myself with the fact that both shows sucked after they made the move. Roswell only lasted 1 season after the move. Buffy mercifully ended a couple of weeks ago.

I said all of that to get to this. Fate, work schedule, and advantageous TV programming came together several weeks ago to rekindle my Dawson’s Creek interest. TBS started broadcasting the last season of the show in anticipation of the season/series finale. They showed 4 episodes a morning for a couple of weeks which culminated with the rebroadcasting the season/series finale a day after it originally aired on the WB. It just so happened that this block of shows came on the air just as I was getting off from work. I got to see the finale season in it’s entirety over roughly a 2 week time period. Once the finale aired, they started over from the beginning, episode 1. This has been a tremendous development for me because not only have I been able to fully catch up on the happenings of the Dawson and the gang but now I get to watch all the episodes I missed originally while I was in my WB-hater stage. A 26 year old guy watching Dawson’s Creek is probably pretty odd but I don’t care. It’s a nice escape that provides a couple of hours of distraction and stress relief at the end of a stressful day (My day is the normal person’s night and vice versa thanks to my new shift at my new job). I can’t go to sleep anyway when I get home from work. Why not watch a show that I enjoy? Besides teenage angst is so much more endearing than my mid-twenties angst.

It turns out that this special brand of teenage escapist fluff was just what the doctor ordered this week. This week in a word has sucked! Last Thursday I went to Florida for an abbreviated fishing trip. Thanks to my new schedule I had to be back Saturday night to go to work. So Saturday, after driving 7 hours from Florida back to Memphis, I slept for 4 hours and then went in for my usual 8 hour shift. I’m young so it’s no big deal right? Well normally it wouldn’t be but the next morning I had to go straight from work to church to lead singing for morning worship. I’ve lead singing before but never going on just 16 hours sleep total in the last 72 hours. Red Bull played a huge part in my drive down to Florida Thursday night but I was determined to lead the Lord’s Worship substance free. I made it through the worship service without a hitch and proceeded to crash at home for the rest of the day. I figured that this had been a grueling weekend but now things would get back to normal and I’d have a normal week. Boy was I wrong. Monday went off without a hitch. It was Memorial Day for everybody else but for me it was a regular work day. Got home at 7am. Slept all day then went in to work again. Being a holiday, TBS showed a movie in place of the 2 hour Dawson’s Creek block. I should have figured out then and there that something was going to be off with this week from here on out. Monday night at work was a little weird. Again it was a holiday so I was there by myself but the night went smoothly. The next morning sure didn’t though. I got off work at 7 wide awake and looking for breakfast. Yet again there was a break in my usual routine which should have been an indication of impending disaster. Instead of driving home (less than a mile) and eating breakfast there, I decided that I would go get some cash and head over to Chic-fil-A to get a couple of Chicken biscuits. On the way back home my car started acting weird. The check engine light came on and the car started hesitating. I had never seen the check engine light on this car before but I wasn’t too worried. The last time the car had acted anything like this was a couple of weeks after I bought it. That time I’d simply run out of gas. Well the tank was almost on empty Tuesday morning so I figured that the gas must have been lower than the gauge indicated. No sweat. I’ll just pull into this Amoco (in the process of being converted into a BP) and fill up. $12.00 and a bottle of gas treatment later I was pulling out of the gas station hoping that the problem was solved. It wasn’t. The check engine light came back on and the engine shaking got worse. I couldn’t take her above 3rd gear and had to poke along at a measley 30 MPH. Thankfully I wasn’t too far from home so I put on the emergency flashers, moved to the far right lane and slowly limped home.

Needless to say I didn’t get much sleep Tuesday. I just laid in my bed trying to figure out what I was going to do. My financial situation, while better than it’s ever been, still isn’t exactly the best. I’m no Mark Cuban. I spent the day hoping and praying that it was something minor that could be easily fixed. Like maybe a dead O2 sensor or something like that. Tuesday afternoon I got up and decided to give the car dealership a call. I figured the odds of me getting any real sleep that day were shot so I might as well get something constructive done. I have very little trust in car dealerships so I dreaded having to deal with one. Alas I’m no mechanic so what could I do? I called the dealership and talked to one of the managers. I described the symptoms and asked him if he thought I should try to drive the car down there. After a little deliberation he suggested having it towed. The dealership is less than 7 miles away but he didn’t think trying to drive it would be a good idea. So I had the car towed down there. I didn’t know how long it would take but I figured they would fix whatever was wrong and I’d go down and drive my baby back home in a few days. Zoom to Wednesday. I rode my bike home from work and went straight to bed. I was tired so I set the VCR for D’s Creek and crashed. Bob, the manager from the dealership service department, called around 9:30. I could tell by the tone of his voice that something was wrong. Upon further reflection, I’m sure that that’s a tactic he uses all the time to make the poor customer think that things are worse than they are. Anyway he told me how extensive the damage was and what the price tag would be. I was floored. Over a $1000 dollars of damage including parts and labor. This from a car that I have had absolutely no problems out of in the year and a half I’ve had it. I almost started hyperventilating before getting a grip and remembering something. At the time of purchase I bought a 4 year extended warranty so I decided to mention that to Bob and see if that would have any effect on the cost. If not, I was going to have to tell them to close the hood and tow my baby back here cause I couldn’t swing that kind of cash all at once. Bob, said he’d check on that and give me a ring back. That call came a couple of hours later. He had checked with the Toyota warranty people and it turns out that about $500 of the work would be covered by the warranty. I almost shouted for joy at that news. $1000 bucks I couldn’t do. $500 or so bucks, I could do. I gave Bob the green light to do the repairs and proceeded to get the best few hours of sleep I’d had in a while. The best part was that they had all the parts on hand and could have the car ready by close of business that day. I was stoked! It would be a minor financial setback but I’d get my car back in working order and move on.

Sleep. Blissful sleep. Sleep that was interrupted abruptly at 4:30 pm. I knew when the phone rang that something was up. The call came too soon for it to be the ‘Come on down and give us your money. We’ve got your car fixed’ call. Bob, sad voice in full effect, started the call off with, “We’ve run into a little snag. ” My heart sank. “What’s wrong?” I said. When he told me what had happened and what the remedy would need to be I was blown away. Bottom line, they said they’d need to replace the cylinder head which would set me back another $2600 big ones. That’s on top of the $500 dollars of work they had already done. I told him flat out that I could not afford that and asked them to button everything up as best they could and tow her back here. Bob said they were a little bit behind and wouldn’t be finished with the work they were doing on the car until noon on Thursday. I said fine and the call abruptly ended. Talk about a roller coaster. I went from the depths of despair that morning to the relative heights of relief a couple of hours later back to the depths of despair a few hours later. The tow truck dropped off Allycia (my car) around 3pm Thursday. Since Bob discouraged me from cranking the car up or driving it all I had to push the car into a parking space. Tow truck dude showed no love at all. He dropped the car in the middle of the parking lot, grabbed his cash and jetted. Luckily my car is small and light so I was able to maneuver her into a parking space after about 15 minutes of sweat and struggle. That’s where she’ll sit until I either save up enough money to get the repairs the dealership guys say are required or I get a second opinion that says that she’s okay to drive or maybe just needs a few other cheaper repairs to get her back on the road. So that’s been my week. It totally sucked…. sort of. Don’t you think? Thank God for Dawson’s Creek. I really needed the distraction this week.


17 May

Soccer Helping Iraq Get Back On Track

I just stumbled across this story about the reimmergance of soccer in Iraq. Fans cheer return of exiled star. The rest of the world gets it. It being soccer. Once again I ask myself, why don’t we get it here? Even in Iraq, a place most folks here consider the enemy (or considered the enemy while Saddam was in power), they’re getting back to the business of playing soccer now that things are slowly getting back to normal. Will soccer ever reach such status here in the states? Saddly I have my doubts. I’d love to see the day when the smug and sure sportscasters have to modify their oft used “big 4 major sports leagues” phrase to the big 5. Soccer, football, basketball, baseball and hockey. Man that would be sweet. It’s not gonna happen but it sure would be sweet.


15 May

Load The Matrix Reloaded Again and Again and Again…..

And again and again….. Amazing! Incredible!! Stupendous!!!! The Matrix Reloaded is jaw dropping. I had a big cheesy grin on my face the whole time. That seems to have become my new benchmark for a truly great film, the big cheesy grin. You can’t be just any old movie and get the big cheesy grin. Only special movies receive it. The movie has to be The One. Reloaded is The One or at least a part of The One that is The Matrix. 3 in 1. The theatrical trinity.

As usual, I won’t say much about the movie. Don’t want to spoil the experience for anybody. All I can say is be sure to take your seatbelt when you go see it because you’re getting ready to go on the ride of your life. That and pay attention to everything. My favorite line of the movie….” So you have some skill.” Here’s another piece of advice; a suggestion if you will. Don’t leave the theater when the credits start to roll. That’s it. I’m out.

And when it’s over load it again and again and again…..


13 May

Nice! Sort Of…

Check out these pics of the 2005 Ford Mustang I’m not a big mustang fan. Actually I’m not a fan at all but I think I could live with this car. I really like the front and side profile. The back is just okay. The front looks really mean. I like that.

[Listening to: D I G I T A L L Y - I M P O R T E D - Trance channel! (US Ultravox) - - (00:00)]


10 May

No Sparks

That girl I spoke about briefly last week isn’t going to work out. My impression of her is that she’s a bit too young and immature for my tastes. Her life is all about school right now. That’s not a bad thing in the least. It’s just not where I’m at right now. I’m out of school. Been there, done that, got a bunch of the T-shirts. That’s not to say that all girls in college or almost finished with college are immature. I’m just saying that this particular one is. I came to these conclusions after a 25 minute conversation with her. The friend who’s attempting to match us up says I need to call her again and set up a date. I say what’s the point? I wasn’t diggin’ her. I think she picked up on that and wasn’t really diggin’ on me. I’m willing to let it be. Going out on a date with this girl would be a complete waste of time for both of us. I’m really not broken up about it. She seemed nice but not exactly what I’m looking for. Is it too much to ask for a mature, intelligent, well spoken female companion? This young lady didn’t appear to have any of these qualities. So that’s that. It’s a no go.

Alas the match making continues. I learned a few days ago that I’ve got several friends who are dying to set me up with someone they know. Ugh!!! Leave me alone. Contrary to popular belief I can find my own dates. Has it occurred to anyone that maybe I haven’t dated much recently because I don’t feel like dating? My focus happens to be elsewhere at the moment. To be honest I’ve got to a lot of things to work on before I’m ready to pursue a serious relationship. Here’s a note to friends looking to set me up. If you’re going to try to set me up with someone please, please, please make sure that that person is someone you know personally. This latest setup attempt was made with a girl that my friend had never met herself. She saw this girl in a picture album one of her co-workers brought to work one day for Pete’s sake! She asked her co-workers about her and of course they talked the girl up real good. My friend passed that second-hand information on to me and said she thought we’d be a good match. Thanks but no thanks. I’ve heard about mail order brides but mail order dates? That’s what this felt like. I can imagine a few years down the line if this had actually worked out. Somebody would ask me how be the two of us met. I’d get to say a friend of mine picked her out of an album. It was very romantic; a match made in heaven.

Maybe I need to start going to bars to look for girls. I don’t drink but they sell stuff other than alcohol (for the “designated drivers). Or even better, I’ll go to da club ala 50 Cent. Obviously the places I’m looking for them at (church, playing soccer, and work) aren’t panning out.


10 May

Marriage Should Be Sacred

I just watched a few minutes of a VH-1 special dealing with the shortest celebrity marriages. It’s really sad that the sanctity and sacred aspects of marriage are taken so lightly today. It’s so easy to get a divorce. The common denominator among most of the “marriages” they highlighted was the amount of time the couples spent getting to know each other. The vast majority of them had only known each other for a couple of months. A few of them only knew each other for a few days before tying the knot. How can you marry the person you’re supposed to spend the rest of your life with when you haven’t spent time determining whether or not that person is that person? Marriage is cheap today. It means very little which makes getting out of it mean even less. I find that sad. I’m not married yet but once I am, I plan on doing everything within my power to make sure it works. I know that talk is cheap and marriage is difficult but I don’t want to go through a divorce. When I get married I want that to be it. ‘Til death do us part. The whole nine. Maybe that’s naive in our day and age but that’s what I’m looking and praying for.


10 May

Poor Armadillo

I came across an armadillo earlier this week. Unfortunately, the poor critter was dead. Armored road kill. It was a very strange sight indeed. You really don’t expect to see an armadillo in Tennessee. I’ve always associated armadillos with Texas; specifically West Texas. That seems like an awfully long way to travel to end up splattered on the side of the road. Apparently it was washed away though during the monsoon like rainstorms we had earlier this week. Actually I’m sure it was scooped up and taken away some poor slub working for the city. What kind of job is that? Having that job would totally suck I think. Anyway, I’ve always thought armadillos were really cool animals. It was both surprising and sad to find one here in west Tennessee. We’re going to the zoo tomorrow. Maybe they’ll have a live one there.


06 May

My Blog Is A Poem. Who Knew?

Thanks to Ultratart for the link to this site. It generates a poem (kind of) out of the contents of any website you throw at it. Below is the poem it generated from the contents of my blog over the last couple of months. Funny stuff. My random thoughts made even more random. Scary indeed.

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03 May

Ouch!

We actually played softball tonight. It didn’t rain today. It rained cats and dogs yesterday for a couple of hours but not today. Boy did we play. We beat our opponent 37 to 5. That’s not a typo. To say that we crushed them would be a tremendous understatement. They called the game at the end of the 3rd inning due to the mercy rule (up by more than 14 runs going into the 4th inning). Not bad for our first game of the season. We can’t give this game too much weight though. They played really badly and we played well above and beyond the level that we usually play at. We’ve been on the receiving end of this kind of rout before though so it was nice to dish out a little punishment for a change. I still felt bad for them though. They seemed like a nice bunch of guys. We’re not in a church league this year which is a bit of a bummer but this team agreed to pray with us after the game which I thought was cool. I couldn’t help but think that they might have played better if they had laid off the beer before the game though. Several of their players reeked of booze. Oh well. To each his own I guess.


02 May

A Day For Mothers

Today I did something I haven’t done in a long time. I bought Mother’s Day cards. Since going of to college, I haven’t been very good about keeping up with major holidays and birthdays and stuff. They always seem to sneak up on me. But this year I remembered. I got my Mom two cards, a serious one and a funny one. They will be deposited in the mail shortly and should make it to Japan in about a week. Just in time for Mother’s Day. I got the practice of giving two cards from my brother. He’s notorious for getting these hilarious, off the wall cards coupled with a really poignant and touching card. I really miss my Mom and the rest of my family right now so I guess I was just in the card getting mood today. I got two for my Mom, one for my Grandma, and one for my aunt. Hopefully I haven’t exhausted my card giving spirit for the next few years. It would be nice to make this an every year occurrence. I’ll start small. First Mother’s Day. Then I’ll add Father’s day. Next a birthday or two. By the time I’m through, I’ll be a special occasion, card giving fool. I’m already a fool. Just need to work on the card giving part.

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